Seasons greetings everyone
Through all the years I have been active infield and before I even became a professional Pick Up Coach I had 6 wingmen. It never did last long as they all found girlfriends within such short time of going out infield with me. At first I was pissed because that wasn’t what I was in it for and I guess I saw it as them settling too early. However I look back on that now and some of them are still with the same girl and I can honestly say they are all still happy and content, which has got to be a beautiful thing right?
We used to relentlessly target the sets with lots of girls in, some of you may find that quite daunting but I always saw it as a challenge and found my self meeting some really cool girls out of it. Recently a student asked me what was the correct way to approach a big set of girls with his wingman. He also asked:
What do I do when my friends come into my sets and blow me out?
I asked him, are they intentionally or unintentionally blowing you out?
He went on to tell me that it was actually unintentionally. He would open up a group of ladys and his friends would see it as there chance to ‘get in there’.
But because he never lay any rules down on the table the end result was loosing the whole entire set. If you want to know more about getting real results with your wingmen then do not hesitate to get in touch info@johnnycassell.com.
But for now my advice is to get away from these people as they will do absolutely nothing to help you succeed in this area of your life. Instead invest your time in finding a good wingman that has the same intentions as you.
To answer the students first question I got him to watch this scene out of the film ‘A Beautiful Mind’. Here John Nash played by Russell Crowe really breaks down the dynamics and logic of opening and closing a big set.
Big sets are my favourite to open and by watching this I hope it really gives you a push this festive period to really go at it.
If you want to start increasing your current level of success with women, then remember to send Johnny an email directly: info@johnnycassell.com and get started with one on one pick up master class training.
Where you can work with Johnny and take your game to the next level.
December 22nd, 2011 at 9:12 pm
Thanks Johnny, you keep coming up with the goods time and time again. I’ll be in touch
February 20th, 2012 at 1:55 am
Haha that purtices at the end is excellent. It’s true though, women can sense when men don’t really get along that well. Men with deep friendships are attractive to a woman it shows a level of character.
April 27th, 2012 at 9:22 pm
1.) The key in any social siatiuton is to look relaxed within yourself. When I say rigid I mean don’t stand like a post frozen in the ground. Gestures help to capture attention and reinforce emotion. As long as you looked relaxed within yourself, you’re fine. I used to put my hands in my back pockets when I started because I felt too nervous moving them as I spoke. If it works for you, great.2.) Yes, it will definitely be more likely to flake. (I honestly don’t know if Matt even tried for a date because we went out EVERY night on Rockstar. Doesn’t matter really.) You want at least five minutes, hopefully 10. I’ve had interactions go 20, but usually I don’t have that kind of time AND I like to apply the George Costanza rule get em laughing and leave on a high note or in other words, show her your best stuff, get the number and let her fill in the gaps later. Twenty-minute interactions (and instadates) sometimes have you hitting the high point and then going back down again because you’re just standing on the street talking and talking. The intrigue gets killed a little if you don’t continue to be interesting, and you can’t escalate (logistically, physically) like you could on a date right there on the street Anyway, long story short, get enough qualification and comfort that she would feel good about going on a date with you and not see you so much as a stranger anymore.Good questions.