Hey guys i hope you managed to take something away from the last post, It is a great exercise for those that also have limited belief, low self esteem and confidence. Here is the second assignment you can do with your partner tonight !

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Expectations

With your lover write down all your expectations of your partner. What do you want them to give you , do for you? What do they do that you don’t like? What do you want to do that you’ve never dared ask or try? How do you want to be held? What sort of caresses do you like to give and receive?

Learning About Your Partner

When you have written down everything you can think of swap over, what you will be given will be invariably, unless you’re connected, be a surprise. This excercise mustn’t become the beginning of discord argument. Instead you can learn a lot about your partner from it . Whatever your partner wants, expects, gives or receives is fine – and the same for you. In tantric sex there can be no right or wrong – only acceptance and recognition. You have to do this with two things in mind: honesty and no judgements. If you want to be in harmony with your partner you have to be honest – as they do also. And if they’ve been courageous enough to be honest then you have to accept what they say without judgement. A person’s sexuality is a very vulnerable and delicate area – but there is no right or wrong . If they have certain reservations or what may appear to you to be strange notions or ideas, then what you feel is fine – because it’s part of them . Obviously the same goes for you. Your feelings, ideas and wants are to be respected .

Asking for What you Want

Look at what your partner has written. Did you know all this? If not, what were you thinking of? The tantric texts were written as a means of communication. Enhancing sex is about just this communication. This communication between lovers can be spoken or not – just so long as it takes place. We all need to be cared for, comforted, loved, caressed and worshipped – but how many of us know how to ask for these things? Or indeed that it’s our right to expect them? But first we have to be prepared to give to them. We cannot give unless we know what is wanted of us, what is expected. To know that we have to be prepared to listen, to be aware of our partners needs. We cannot be open to another’s needs if we are consumed with our own. To give whole heartedly , without reservation, without expectation of reward or reciprocal gifts is the first and hardest lesson of tantric sex.

When we are aware of our partners needs are. Ultimately important we can give ultimately to them. And thus they will give back to us unconditionally. We cannot expect this return of love it’s a bonus when it happens. But we have to be the ones to make the first declaration of unconditional worship – that’s the way it works. We give first and then are rewarded sometimes. But we always give first .

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Today I’m giving you an understanding of the practice of tantric sex as well as the first of many practical assignments for you to go and try. Remember guys keep an open mind when reading this stuff  its a complete different approach from how sex has become so westernized and goal orientated. When practiced this stuff is really fulfilling and can take your sex life to completely new levels.

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The Practice of Tantric Sex

Keeping an open mind and approaching the practical assignments with enthusiasm.

Arousal – The importance of excitement and arousal in tantric sex, not approaching tantric sex in a cold or analytical manor

Foreplay – The importance of arousal, excitement and stimulation in good foreplay for tantric sex

Orgasm – Men shouldn’t get hung up on the non–ejaculating orgasm

Mutual Pleasuring – Knowing your partner well, knowing your own physical responses, knowing how to give pleasure

Lovemaking Positions – not as hard as you thought, easy once tried

Bliss and spirituality – finding a real experience of ones own spirituality without having to rely on anyone else’s opinion or beliefs.

Practical Assignment  1

Being Comfortable With Our Body

Stand naked in front of a mirror. Look objectively at yourself and hear what goes on in your head.

Personal Objective
What you see is unimportant – it is only a container – but what you say to yourself is the revealing information. Are you OK about standing there in the nude? Do you feel free and liberated? Or guilty and shy? Only you can know what goes on in your head about your sexuality.
That’s what we’ve got to get rid of – all that stuff. And it’s no good blaming anyone else: ‘Oh my mother made me feel this way about sex’ ; ‘if it hadn’t been for my first bad sexual encounter i’d be much more relaxed’ ; ‘I’ve been hurt so many times i just can’t trust anymore’; when you stand naked in front of that mirror none of those people will be there.

Changing Ourselves
That’s why it’s good blaming them they’re not there anymore – it’s just you, your sexuality and that energy. Only you can change it. Even if you managed to get all the people responsible for the way you feel about sex together and you could accuse them, blame them and harangue them, it wouldn’t do you a lot of good – because only you can change what goes on inside your head. Only you. And the first change you can make is acceptance. What you see is what you get – what your lover gets – and they love you just as you are. Stand and look and be proud. What you see, believe it or not, is a perfect human being. You are exactly as your creator wanted you to be. How can you dare argue with your creator? According to the tantric practitioners what you see is a perfect representation of that energy, that divinity in a human form. Isn’t it fabulous?

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Where you can work with Johnny and take your game to the next level.