No matter how boring a woman is, you need to listen and pay attention to what she has to offer. If she’s shy and isn’t opening up, ask open ended questions about her. Let her talk about herself, her likes, dislikes. Don’t interject, don’t try to make it about you. There will be time for that, and you can speak on a number of topics, but ask questions. Be inquisitive, and let things go naturally into conversation. If you listen closely, and ask follow up questions, you are going to go far. Most women will be able to talk about themselves, their desires and more with relative ease. You have to listen, pay attention, and be there, even if it’s boring to you.
At the end of the day, the above tips are a starting point that you need to figure out. There’s a lot more to dating than these things. However, you need to start working towards resolving your issues overall. Take an assessment of what you want out of your life, what you are trying to get out of dating, and where you have gone wrong in the past. The more you pay attention to your quirks, the better off you’ll be. You need to change yourself up a bit, and make yourself more attractive. You need to work on your body, mind, and spirit. If you can do that, you’ll attract more women, end up going on more dates, and even having more sex if you’d like. Working on yourself is a sexy quality, don’t dismiss it.
