Ignore the Blonde

December 22, 2011 - 3 minutes read

Seasons greetings everyone

Through all the years I have been active infield and before I even became a professional Pick Up Coach I had 6 wingmen. It never did last long as they all found girlfriends within such short time of going out infield with me. At first I was pissed because that wasn’t what I was in it for and I guess I saw it as them settling too early. However I look back on that now and some of them are still with the same girl and I can honestly say they are all still happy and content, which has got to be a beautiful thing right?

We used to relentlessly target the sets with lots of girls in, some of you may find that quite daunting but I always saw it as a challenge and found my self meeting some really cool girls out of it. Recently a student asked me what was the correct way to approach a big set of girls with his wingman. He also asked:

What do I do when my friends come into my sets and blow me out?

I asked him, are they intentionally or unintentionally blowing you out?

He went on to tell me that it was actually unintentionally. He would open up a group of ladies and his friends would see it as there chance to ‘get in there’.

But because he never lay any rules down on the table the end result was loosing the whole entire set. If you want to know more about getting real results with your wingmen then do not hesitate to get in touch [email protected]

But for now my advice is to get away from these people as they will do absolutely nothing to help you succeed in this area of your life. Instead invest your time in finding a good wingman that has the same intentions as you.

To answer the students first question I got him to watch this scene out of the film ‘A Beautiful Mind‘. Here John Nash played by Russell Crowe really breaks down the dynamics and logic of opening and closing a big set.

Big sets are my favourite to open and by watching this I hope it really gives you a push this festive period to really go at it.


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