There is a great tragedy in this world, and that’s people who are legitimately attracted to each other who don’t build any legitimate connections.
I see it every day in bookstores, coffee shops and even supermarkets. Long looks over frozen bacon.
He’s a hottie, single-dad who enjoys walks in the park and Baskin Robbins. She’s a hottie, single, karaoke singer who enjoys walks on the beach and Jamba Juice. It’s not much of a stretch to see they would be perfect for each other.
But wham, bang, boom – nothing. They wheel their carts past each other as if it was commonplace to pass up your soul mate in the frozen food section.
But deep down they understand this tragedy. Their inner dialogues go something like this: “#*%^@%*!”
It’s frustrating when we see someone we’re attracted to and don’t at least say hello. Guys tend to beat themselves up over this, “I’m such a coward. She was perfect but I did nothing. I’m going to rent Clint Eastwood movies until I become a real man.”
Whereas women tend to think there’s something wrong with themselves. “That guy looked me up and down but didn’t say hi or anything. I’m leaving these groceries in the cart and going to the gym instead.”
Think about that for a second. If your dad had never hit on your mom, you would not be here right now—or you might be calling Ted Kennedy daddy. See what I mean by tragedy?
In this blog, I hope to teach you to be a charismatic communicator and an opportunity-seeker. You will have sculpted your skills for interacting with strangers for business, pleasure, and maintaining a stable world population.
Always remember successful people and organizations increasingly invite random chance and take advantage of it when it presents itself.
This means that one of the ways to increase opportunities in our lives is to leave more things up to chance. This way of pursuing opportunity says that when you try something new, you are stepping into a world of unpredictability, just as you do when you place a bet.
The idea is to expose yourself to concepts from minds, industries, and cultures that are different from your own.
The more unalike these areas are, the greater the opportunity that you will expose yourself to a random idea. When you socially calibrate with a diverse mix of people with different perspectives and objectives, new conceptual connections and opportunities have a better chance of occurring.
If you can’t create a diverse group of friends, try to create an environment where people from different backgrounds will serendipitously interact with each other.
You increase the chance of new opportunities if you bring together people who usually do not have a reason to connect. Perhaps the fastest and easiest way to accomplish this is by organizing social events.
Always reject the predictable path
While you may think you have a logical plan or course of action, you will open yourself up to more unpredictable opportunities if you actually reject the predictable path.
Always know how to smell for openings via your intuition
These windows provide a pathway to breakthrough success. They may not be open for long, however, so we need to be prepared to make a quick decision before complex forces cause conditions to shift once again.
Create large hooks just like in fishing
This tactic is based on the idea that the most important part of taking an opportunity is the fact that you took action. Once you start executing, whether or not the opportunity actually works in your favour, you are exposed to complex forces that can pave the way for future success.
I hope these tips will help you not only to improve yourself every day by 1% but also to build a better life, know what you want and need and go with the flow of happiness. And with these tips, I hope you can get out there and attract the kind of woman you want, whether it’s short term, long term, or marriage.
Good luck in whatever path you take, my friend, but never forget that the moment you decide to drop your dream, you have to live with that for the rest of your life.
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Good vibes always! ❤️