Facebook is a fantastic place to stay in touch with your friends family and acquaintances, but what I want to address is why is it that people unfriend others on Facebook?
The first thing I want to point out is: Stop posting the dirty laundry over Facebook.
I see so many people putting what I call there dirty laundry all over Facebook. Bitching about a friend/ex bf/gf, announcing a break up or how depressed they are well here’s the thing… STOP, because no one wants to hear it. Look at it like this – negative energy and positive energy is contagious and no one really invites the black cloud to the party.
Start to see Facebook as your market place.
You are a brand, choose to market yourself positively not negatively.
- No my gf has left me songs
- No negatively driven status updates
- No serial picture posting (people don’t want to see an overkill of all your pictures peppered all across their news feed every day)
- No mass inviting your friends to geeky games like candy crush or farmsville
- No mass event inviting
You never actually see each other offline
Friending their friends when you don’t know them
Too many status updates
Talking too much about your love life or partner
“Don’t Facebook your problems… face your problems”
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