NEWS AND BLOG
Flirting Do’s and Dont’s
I’ve had quite a few messages asking me to break down an easy list of flirting dos and don’ts. While I’m going to do my best to distil the core aspects of effective flirting into an easy bulleted list, you have to enter flirty encounters with a solid foundation in confidence and conversational skills before… Flirting Do’s and Dont’s
Charisma: How to get it
Charisma is a hugely important aspect of being desirable. It’s not always the money or the muscle that makes a movie or rock star attractive. Often, it’s the way they carry themselves and project their large personalities that draws people in. And it’s likely to be the same force that’s driving their presence onstage or… Charisma: How to get it
4 body language signs that she’s ready to kiss
A pretty hefty percentage of the guys who book to come on my courses say that part of their difficulties with women stem from not knowing when to go in for the kiss. Some women may well tell you in words. Most, however, are going to convey that they are ready to kiss you using… 4 body language signs that she’s ready to kiss
Your daily checklist for core confidence
It’s a bumper edition today, as practice is a crucial part of my teaching and I wanted to share something with you that could change your life. When my clients come to me and explain their struggles with self-esteem, the pattern that emerges is always one of self-punishment, not self-reward. There seems to be a… Your daily checklist for core confidence
How to charm a girl into dating you
You can chat to as many women as you like, but, eventually, you’ll have to learn how to charm one of them into going out with you. I always emphasise the importance of being open and friendly when you’re in the field, we call this closing. But what you’re really doing is opening again –… How to charm a girl into dating you
How to gain confidence with women
I tell this to students and readers across all of my teachings: Everyone’s favourite topic of conversation is themselves. They often respond with “I don’t know how to talk about myself.” No matter how much you encourage a person to discuss their life by using open questions, you will end up needing to know how… How to gain confidence with women
How to talk about yourself without bragging
I tell this to students and readers across all of my teachings: Everyone’s favourite topic of conversation is themselves. They often respond with “I don’t know how to talk about myself.” No matter how much you encourage a person to discuss their life by using open questions, you will end up needing to know how… How to talk about yourself without bragging
How to get your girlfriend in the mood
I want to use this post to address how to get your girlfriend in the mood. I don’t just coach guys like yourself on how to approach women in bars. I want people to be happy long-term. I’m also a relationship counsellor and can tell you that the work certainly does not finish after you’ve… How to get your girlfriend in the mood
The science behind eye contact and attraction
Eye contact is one of the most essential elements of communication, and it plays a vital role in setting up and maintaining attraction. I tell all of my students that most communication is nonverbal. You often have an entire conversation before you’ve opened your mouth. There are very few places this comes into play more… The science behind eye contact and attraction