A first date is a thrill-ride through your personal histories, values, and common ground. The follow-up date is about sustaining a sense of fun and showing what a relationship with you is going to be about. In some ways, the second date can be easier. You’ve already established rapport, and if your date has already […]
Read MoreWe all feel it – that yearning to head somewhere without knowing we’ll next be putting up the cash for extra legroom, forgetting our troubles, and heading somewhere far, far away from the home in which we’ve been confined for months. Having done so much work abroad in 2019, the pandemic has certainly been a […]
Read MoreEffective communication is the lifeblood of a healthy relationship. A couple will benefit significantly from regular tests of their relationship’s sturdiness. A great way to achieve this is through regular check-ins. You can make sure your values still align and that you still have enough in common. Some questions can help a couple kick off […]
Read MoreI’m sure you have already formed some picture in your head to answer the question “what does dating mean?” However, that picture will have developed in alignment with your values. In real terms, defining dating is not as simple as it would first seem. Over the last fifteen years, I’ve emphasised the same lessons for […]
Read MoreTruth or Dare is a great game you can whip out to spice up a party or a dirty night with other couples. However, it can also enter your bedroom play to stimulating effect. I’ve rounded up tips from both the truth and dare corners to introduce intimate physical contact and keep the fun rolling. […]
Read MoreOpen questions have played a crucial role in my dating workshops for over 15 years. They’re a building block for compelling conversations that help women feel more comfortable opening up to you. This type of questioning elicits a detailed answer, rather than a yes or no. A why, rather than a what. These allow you to build rapport, challenge assumptions, and […]
Read MoreBreakups are tough, draining, and often very spiteful. Many men have difficulties accepting that a relationship has finished, and an even tougher time regaining some level of normality. If two people’s personalities or ambitions don’t align, a relationship may head towards a breakup. Clear communication and mutual adjustment can help, but it may sometimes be […]
Read MoreWomen send clear signals to show that they’re not attracted to guys. Some may be extremely direct. Others may meander around what they actually mean. Certain women will string a guy along without directly saying no altogether. It’s important for men to understand these signs, as they’re the fine line between a clean break with […]
Read More“Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them; and each mind contemplates a different beauty.” – David Hume, Philosopher Physical appearance plays a crucial role in sexual attraction. However, attractiveness is shaped by how society sees it, and people deemed ugly can still be attractive no matter […]
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