How we relate and connect with our families plays a key role in how we form relationships later on in life. When I talk to my clients about first dates, I always recommend that they ask about how their other half gets on with their family. Our bonds with our parents, if they’re both around, are … [Read more...] about Bonding With Your Family To Reduce Neediness With Your Partner
5 reasons why it’s not money holding you back
Plenty of people tie their woes and shortcomings to a lack of funds. I’m writing today to tell you that it’s not a shortage of money serving as a barrier to progress. Money is a central part of modern life, whether you agree with the way the world works or not. Because so much depends on money, … [Read more...] about 5 reasons why it’s not money holding you back
What I Learned Working for the Family Business
When I was working for my family, I took on the role of generating new business. I had my own little office and van. Every week I would hit industrial estate after industrial estate. I would experience conversation with everyone; both the grafters on the workshop floor, inhaling all of those … [Read more...] about What I Learned Working for the Family Business
Understanding The Concept of Eyes Accessing Cues In NLP
Eyes Accessing Cues: Where a person is looking might tell you more than you think Eye contact is a vital part of human connection. But what does it mean when people break eye contact? It is likely that this is a representation of the brain searching for and processing information. Eyes … [Read more...] about Understanding The Concept of Eyes Accessing Cues In NLP
Jobs and Experiences that help you become an Extrovert
Hey guys, In this article, I want to share with you a handful of jobs and activities that help you to become extroverted. The common denominator amongst all of these activities is the high turnover of face-to-face interactions. This is vital for exercising your social muscles and minimising … [Read more...] about Jobs and Experiences that help you become an Extrovert
How to manage overstimulation in the modern age
With such an exciting array of technologies now at people’s fingertips, we run the risk of constant overstimulation. While this is often the advice given by psychologists regarding substance abuse, it applies equally to anything that triggers the reward circuits in the brain. This can be … [Read more...] about How to manage overstimulation in the modern age
Why anxiety is actually good for you
Everybody experiences anxiety, and it is not all bad. I’m about to explain why. Recent stats show that 3 million people in the UK are currently receiving treatment for an anxiety disorder, and people with an anxiety disorder make up 25% of those now seeking treatment for a mental health problem … [Read more...] about Why anxiety is actually good for you
A killer tip for staying in state using Shazam and Spotify
Music and mood are inextricably linked, and many of my clients ask how I manage to stay in state. Apps like Spotify and Shazam can be handy tools for keeping a positive social mood rolling. What is staying in state? This is what I like to call a social snowball: generating positive associations … [Read more...] about A killer tip for staying in state using Shazam and Spotify