Eyes Accessing Cues: Where a person is looking might tell you more than you think Eye contact is a vital part of human connection. But what does it mean when people break eye contact? It is likely that this is a representation of the brain searching for and processing information. Eyes … [Read more...] about Understanding The Concept of Eyes Accessing Cues In NLP
Jobs and Experiences that help you become an Extrovert
Hey guys, In this article, I want to share with you a handful of jobs and activities that help you to become extroverted. The common denominator amongst all of these activities is the high turnover of face-to-face interactions. This is vital for exercising your social muscles and minimising … [Read more...] about Jobs and Experiences that help you become an Extrovert
How to manage overstimulation in the modern age
With such an exciting array of technologies now at people’s fingertips, we run the risk of constant overstimulation. While this is often the advice given by psychologists regarding substance abuse, it applies equally to anything that triggers the reward circuits in the brain. This can be … [Read more...] about How to manage overstimulation in the modern age
Why anxiety is actually good for you
Everybody experiences anxiety, and it is not all bad. I’m about to explain why. Recent stats show that 3 million people in the UK are currently receiving treatment for an anxiety disorder, and people with an anxiety disorder make up 25% of those now seeking treatment for a mental health problem … [Read more...] about Why anxiety is actually good for you
A killer tip for staying in state using Shazam and Spotify
Music and mood are inextricably linked, and many of my clients ask how I manage to stay in state. Apps like Spotify and Shazam can be handy tools for keeping a positive social mood rolling. What is staying in state? This is what I like to call a social snowball: generating positive associations … [Read more...] about A killer tip for staying in state using Shazam and Spotify
The Science of Falling in Love
Is there a science to falling in love? I’m sure you’ve clicked on this article looking for an easy solution to finding the woman you truly desire and convincing her to fall in love with you. You won’t be surprised to know that it isn’t quite so simple. The formula is easy enough, but … [Read more...] about The Science of Falling in Love
Your daily checklist for core confidence
It’s a bumper edition today, as practice is a crucial part of my teaching and I wanted to share something with you that could change your life. When my clients come to me and explain their struggles with self-esteem, the pattern that emerges is always one of self-punishment, not self-reward. … [Read more...] about Your daily checklist for core confidence
How to gain confidence with women
I tell this to students and readers across all of my teachings: Everyone’s favourite topic of conversation is themselves. They often respond with “I don’t know how to talk about myself.” No matter how much you encourage a person to discuss their life by using open questions, you will end up … [Read more...] about How to gain confidence with women